semoga rahmat Allah sentiasa melimpahi kita semua...amin

bismillah....

alhamdulillah.. Allah masih bagi peluang dan umur untuk mintak maaf...

yup. dis entry is made specially as a note of apology from me.

straight to the point, mesti ramai orang terkejut bila tengok status yang dah bertukar di facebook tu kan..?? so with this entry, i hope everyone can forgive me for my bad and my mistake. actually we didn't plan the event to be like that.

everything started between both of us, azhar and me. months ago, i did ask him to come to my house, visiting my family. a small and simple visit to let both parents know each other. tapi as we all know (or if u dont, let me tell ya), navy adalah sangat busy. banyak komitmen bla bla bla... and our extra package is my family berada di terengganu, spesifically jerteh dan lagi spesificnye dekat border terengganu kelantan dan family azhar pulak lives in johor bahru. u can just imagine the distance, tq.

so disebabkan masa dan jarak itu, we have actually decided not to have all those supposed-to-be-small events like merisik dan bertunang. that's originally my plan, untuk kebaikan dua-dua pihak. tapi disebabkan kami mempunyai masalah komunikasi akibat kekangan masa dan "jenis" encik tunang, that visit bertukar menjadi satu majlis di saat-saat akhir.

because of that last minute decision, not all of my siblings cud make time and come back home... dan saya pun pasrah je.. tak kesah pun sebenarnya.. dan sebagai tanda hormat kepada abang mama yang duk lam satu daerah dengan kami, we invited his family and asked my uncle to be spokeperson bagi pihak kami...

at first, kak eg sorang je yang balik.. tu pun betul-betul sorang, without her husband, and kebetulan memang die amik cuti panjang before we decided the date for my engagement. kak t got important meeting that monday, abang mie got photography job, abang mad kerja, ira got class and abang yoe dah ade plan lain which was attending kenduri kawen his wife's cousin. so i just say it's ok, it's just a small event anyway.. oh, even adik pun xde kat umah on dat day, ade camp kecemerlangan spm.

however, 2 days before majlis, abang mad called saying that he wanted to come back home. driving from jb. so bertambah lah sorang ahli keluarga. and surprisingly, malam before majlis, abang yoe called, asking the time of the event. dengan izin Allah, abang yoe has been warded that morning and he couldnt go to Rompin, where d wedding of kak na's cousin took place, so he decided untuk balik jerteh. i was super shocked and alhamdulillah, abang yoe, kak na and anak-anak selamat sampai pagi isnin tu.. together with my lil sister, ira. seronok sangat-sangat because i really didnt expect that things to be like that.

berbalik kepada event. the reason why i want a simple event like this is, i want both families to get to know each other well. from the past experiences, daripada majlis pertunangan my sisters, we had a really big ceremony. with pelamin, bunga telur, doorgift, big jemputan, seriously macam kenduri kawen. and i realized that when the event were like that, my parents didnt have much time untuk bersembang dengan family sebelah lelaki sebab kena layan tetamu sendiri yang sangat ramai. and that is also the reason why i wanted encik tunang to just have a visit, not anything bigger than that. tapi disebabkan sedikit salah faham, lawatan bertukar menjadi satu majlis. eh, bukan satu, tapi dua.

but what i want to say is, please forgive me... semuanya berlaku dalam masa yang singkat.. it's my fault sebab tak bagitau ramai orang but please understand me, it's not what i planned. tak berniat untuk lukakan hati sesiapa.

akhir kata, tolong doakan kami ye... ;)

and here i show u a few pics of d event by zahirah dahria... a few that i love ;)

menu utama, sup tulang..

oh aisyah mesti suka nih, akok pun nampak sangat sedap bila snap ngan kamera mahal, ish ish ish..

with my sista, ira

i love this pic, soooo much. my bestie, ekyn, and two gemoks, lalah and didie..

ala-ala candid gitu..eh, memang candid pun senarnye.. hehe..

masa berbincang. i was in d room, bilik yang jauh, x dengar pun apa dorang bincang.

us with his mama and abah...

and lastly us, with both parents...;) oh, sangat gemok di dalam gambar ni...

gambar sarung cincin xde.. bateri camera habes time tu..and still waiting to have one from encik tunang.. sorry..heee..

so, that's all.

assalamualaikum...